What to expect out of a reading?

A reading is basically a conversation with your loved one, through me. However, they have A LOT TO SAY.

Initially, my role is to build trust with you (that I am indeed bringing through your loved one) and with spirit (that I can be a trusted messenger for them). We will spend the first 5-10 minutes of the reading establishing that trust. If you have multiple people you want to connect with, this process will start over every time we move from one person to another.

It is very important not to give me your whole life story in the first 2 minutes! ha! I need you to leave the session trusting that all of this came from your loved one. Trust that they will bring the validation you need.

We will then move on to messages. When spirit is ready for questions, I will let you know, but don’t worry, the whole session is very healing and magical.

If, within the first 10 minutes, you do not feel like we can connect to one of your loved ones, I will gladly refund you. I take a lot of pride in my work, and put in a lot of effort for quality of messages, so I do not want to waste your time. It’s okay if I’m not the right ‘translator’ for you.

Note that I hear, sense, see and feel spirit. However, communicating with spirit is very different than communicating with another alive being. It’s a lot more subtle, so I can sometimes make mistakes distinguishing the signs they are sending me. If that is the case, I will ask you to validate through yes-no-maybe. As the session evolve, so will the strength of the connection.

How to prepare for a reading?

While I don’t allow recordings for legal reasons, bring pen and paper! Get ready to write, write, write.

If you are looking to connect with someone that recently departed, please wait 3 months. The transition to the spiritual realm can sometimes be quick, but it can sometimes be difficult for some people that were not ready to pass.

Think about 1-2 questions you’d like to ask a certain spirit.

If you are someone that often get readings, make sure you ‘brush up’ on family trees. If spirit come through too often, they will often feel like they can no longer support you, and will leave the way to another loved one to bring messages.

Please come sober. Out of respect for my time, note that I will not refund a reading for someone that is under the influence.